and we still need to talk about it. Its not that it isnt important, it just never seems to ceaze amazing me that in the civilized world we havent figured out how to allow people to be who they are. To worship as they please, dress, walk and talk in a way that is appropriate and functional for them. I suppose mostly because there always seems to be a dominant majority that can claims power and right to the judgement of others.

As far as “Gay” becoming a unified identity …Im not sure why the hunkydory “gay community” would want to push for this…Im confused…are you fighting for equality or for special recognition as a repressed group? It seems counter intuitive to do the later because it predetermines this group as subordinate and of lesser stature by defining it as needing special recognition. I say if your gay, be gay. I know its harsh and maybe somewhat unsympathetic but the reality is in context we are all part of a repressed group, and allowing yourself to be victimized only furthers the process of repression and powerlessness. Similarly in response to the “Women on Televison”  article, its our responsibility to inquire about truth, and not blindly accept the ideologies blasted from the televison screen. Im not saying society doesnt play a role in our socialization and that parents shouldn’t carry some weight as far as teaching their children about the choices they have…but after eighteen its your mind for your ass. We make choices and as individuals we are fundamentally and morally responsible for those choices and the actions tha fallow …that is if you believe in free will and not the popular cop out known as fate….

Having said all that….this rings true though disturbing…sensitive viewers beware

What can I say about this???? The internet puts a whole new spin on parenting, kids will always be currious about sex, is it better that they find a playboy magazine  than a beastiality website?

Its endless the arguments against pornography and how it portrays women, but its produced as fantasy…so where do fantasy and reality collide, where does the endless taboo craze end, and how do we promote freedom and equality to all while still catering to everyones needs?

Anyone the million dollar question awaits you ……it could just be your fate….